You are right and he is wrong, period! You would have ended up a battered wife. He was showing all of the signs of a future wife beater. Next time, when you start feeling guilty or confused and don't know why, GET OUT FAST! It's them not you. Avoid anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself. True friends love you and make you feel good. Poisonous ones don't.
White Dove
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Feeling numb
by daniella ini guess i'm now an ex-girlfriend/ex-unofficial fiancee of a disfellowshipped-but-still-believing jw.
i am still reeling from what i discovered last week.
the same friend told me.
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A STUNNINGLY simple question about JOHN 3:16 "For God so Loved the world."
by Terry inon what basis did god so love the world?.
the world of mankind had been condemned to death by god's curse in eden!.
god viewed mankind as "dust on the scales".
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White Dove
So, umm...who is the collector of the ransom? God collected it but shouldn't the devil have been paid, instead? God owned it (Jesus' life) in the first place as the one who died was already his. So, Adam and Eve sinned. They and kids pay. God kills son to rescue kids (us). God collects son's death as ransom to himself. ILLOGICAL! Wouldn't the ransom for people be paid to the devil, instead? I mean, he stole humans to begin with so the price to buy them back ought to be umm...I guess by them or by God umm...paid to the devil, not to God! Right?
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Embezeling from JW family
by White Dove ina family i know left the jw's two years ago, but their jw family thinks they are still in.
the jw family insists to the point of forceful anger on paying for their convention trips every year.
family feels trapped and cannot tell jw family that they don't go anymore because one member is powerful elder.
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White Dove
A family I know left the JW's two years ago, but their JW family thinks they are still in. The JW family insists to the point of forceful anger on paying for their convention trips every year. Family feels trapped and cannot tell JW family that they don't go anymore because one member is powerful elder. Family is angry for being trapped like this and pressured to attend at JW family's orders. So...they "plan" for the convention and accept the money to keep JW family pacified. Does that make Family bad? JW family feels like all powerful mafia. What would you do?
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White Dove
I never felt very supportive of anything they presented for votes. I just raised my hand to not look like a jerk. Now, I wished I was more honest.
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What kind of a funeral do you want?
by Princess Daisy Boo inso all this talk at the moment about funerals and stuff got me thinking... what kind of an exit party would i like?.
i reckon i would not want anything too formal, but i would want loads of people saying how great i was - i people to notice that i am no longer around, and be sad about it!
i want people to share good memories.
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White Dove
After harvesting for organs, my family can do whatever they want with my body. I want everyone to go out and party. Celebrate my life the right way! None of this crying and sadness.
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What Was The Silliest "Offense" That You Were Counseled For?
by minimus inwhen i was a teenager, i was told by an elder that because i smiled a lot and was known for my good sense of humor, that i should come across as "more serious".
so before i was appointed a ms, while in my late teens, i transformed myself into a much more "serious" brother.. were you ever told that you needed to work on something that you knew was stoopid?.
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White Dove
Minimus sounds a lot like my uncle and his wife sounds just like my aunt! She'd wear diamonds on all ten fingers at the hall, and I'm not talking about the little kind, either. She would wear real fur coats to the hall, too, and big wigs. It just didn't fit into the dress of the occasion. Nevertheless, I loved to see her all dressed up like that:) She was showing herself to be unique while all the rest were sheeple. She was an individual, and I liked that.
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was Rutherford a drunk person ?
by jose45xyz inis there anything to prove that rutherford had the custom to be drunk ?.
thank you in advance.
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White Dove
I read that you can get pulmonary problems with cigars. Isn't that true? Don't people inhale?
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Poem from dub friend.
by searchingforfriends ini got this in an e-mail from a childhood friend that is still an active jw.
i found it to be very upsetting and was wondering if anyone else gets the kind of e-mail forwards from friends/family that are still in?
and how you handle it.
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White Dove
First of all, he sounded a bit controlling. She just didn't see it in the courtship.
Second, JW's get AIDS, too! And, they think it can't happen to them. That's just ignorant. It's not just a sex disease. It's a blood and fluid sharing disease that can spread at the dentist, doctor, and at work, anywhere skin can break and get infected by another. Not easy to get, but possible.
Thirdly, JW's lose their jobs, too. Jah doesn't keep them immune to life's stressors. They are NOT special.
JWs hit their mates, too. I've seen it. They are NOT nicer than average people. Sometimes they are meaner.
Forthly, this is a silly and shortsighted poem.
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Who's the most annoying Jehovah's Witness
by dawg ini vote for rutherford, but he's not on the list.
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http://www.amiannoying.com/(s(2ya1ik45f0fdnw55fqvvgu55))/collection.aspx?collection=659
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White Dove
Paul Newel CO Long spring dresses are immodest because they are long.
Guy Pierce GB Don't go to your high school reunion because no JW's will be there.
Harold Dempsey PO You aren't doing anything with your kids, spiritually.
Hopkins Elder To my little boy: What?! You don't have a tie?! We were new there and my boy hated ties.
HEY MUHAMMAD! THESE GUYS NAMED THEIR DOGS AFTER YOU!
Well, that took care of 'em! I spelled his name wrong, didn't I?
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AK-Jeff turns traitor!!
by Open mind inhe has allowed his picture to be used smack dab in the middle of the front cover of the may 1, (public edition) watchtower!
i'm so disappointed.
sorry i don't have a scan.. can anyone else provide one?.
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White Dove
Oh, I wanna see it too!